International Bereaved Father’s Day 2015

This Sunday, September 27 is International Bereaved Father’s Day. I encourage you to reach out to a Dad you know who is living without one (or more) of his precious children.

Here are some simple ways to do so:

• Send a text or call on the phone. Just say, “Hi, thinking of you, if you ever need to talk…”
• Get together with the man. Quality time means the world – even if it is just playing Mario Cart.
• If the man and his family are planning a time of remembrance, ask how you can support them.

If you are a bereaved father, please remember:

• You are still a dad. It is a part of who you are, whether your child is with you or not.
• Embrace how you are feeling. Don’t judge yourself – and if other’s judge you, ignore them.
• Surround yourself with supportive people and do something that feels authentic for you. Take time to remember – OR – distract yourself with a pleasurable hobby. If you need to be alone, that’s okay too. There is no right or wrong choice!
• If you are struggling, please reach out. It is brave to ask for help.

I will be posting here on Wanted Chosen Planned this Sunday about the real meaning of Fatherhood. Please read and share with the men you know need the support.

Hugs,

Alexis Marie